Ur not mean, just not nice

So, the other day I was asked what I thought about a person and I gave my opinion.  Then then asked me some questions here and there and I answered truthfully.  They then asked me if I thought that person was nice.  I was like, no, I don’t think that person is nice.  I got a look as if I really insulted someone.  I was like, she’s not mean or anything, she’s just not nice.  That was pretty much the end of the question.  WTF??  So many things to talk about.

First of all, why are you asking me questions if you don’t really like the answers to?  If you just want me to be a puppet and answer affirmatively to everything you say, tell me that beforehand and I’ll oblige.  Otherwise, I will answer honestly like I always do.  Go talk to your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend if you want a Yes man/woman.

Secondly, who the hell cares what I think?  I’m nobody.

And finally, if I say you are not nice, it doesn’t mean that I think you are mean!  Just like if I say someone is not pretty, it doesn’t mean they are ugly.  If someone is not smart, it doesn’t mean they are dumb!!  What part of that don’t you understand.  I’m not being insulting, I’m just not paying a compliment.  Freaking chill out.  If someone says you are not nice, and you are insulted by it…well it probably just proves that you are not nice.  If you have a problem with it, then do something about it and actually be nice.  If you are a nice person, you are nice any and all the time, in any situation.  Not just when you are in a good mood or when you just got a raise or you want something from me.  That is what the definition of a nice person is.  If that’s who you want to be, then go for it.  Don’t get all mad or cry with me to try to change my mind.  That will only move you towards the mean side in my mind.  Do something about it so that the next time you ask me or someone asks me about you I can say yes, that person is nice.